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How to Make Him Value You More by Setting Boundaries
The Power of Saying “No” at the Right Moments to Strengthen Your Relationship
How can you make someone love you more? It’s a question many of us ask, especially when we feel like we’re giving all of ourselves to someone who doesn’t seem to appreciate it. It’s common, particularly for women, to believe that love is something you can earn by doing everything right by always being available, giving endlessly, and sacrificing your own needs. But here’s the truth: love isn’t about giving until you have nothing left to offer. In fact, the more you give without boundaries, the less your partner will value you.
While this may sound counterintuitive, there are key moments when rejecting your partner not out of anger, but out of self-respect can make him love you more. Setting boundaries is not just important for your own well-being; it’s also the key to making him see your worth and strengthening the relationship.
1. When He Reaches Out Only on His Terms
Think about the times he contacts you, but only when it’s convenient for him. Maybe it’s late at night when he’s bored, or when he needs someone to vent to, but it’s always when he’s looking for something, not considering your needs. You drop everything to be there, thinking you’re showing how much you care…