Why Does Love Change Over Time?

How Relationships change and How to Keep the Spark Alive

Have you ever wondered why so many relationships seem to fade over time, like leaves that turn brown and fall from a tree? In the beginning, everything feels exciting, fresh, and new. But eventually, the energy seems to drain away, and the spark disappears. The relationship that once felt full of life can start to feel like it’s stuck in a rut. So, what happens? Is it inevitable that love fades, or is there something we can do to keep it alive?

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The Start with the Fresh and Full of Excitement

At the start of any relationship, everything feels alive. When you’re with someone new, it’s like the world is bursting with possibilities. You feel special, important, and deeply connected. Your body is full of energy, and you’re constantly excited to spend time together.

A big part of this initial energy comes from the attention and care your partner gives you. Attention is like a powerful fuel that makes everything feel better. It’s a form of energy that keeps you alive in the relationship. Everything looks brighter, more colorful, and more exciting.

“In the meantime, the night and the music, and the love, are enough.” At the beginning, it’s all about the energy, the late nights, and the feeling that everything…